My Specialties
Dyslexia and other neurodiversities
I specialise in working with people who are neurodiverse – particularly dyslexia. I also work with those who are gifted or “twice exceptional” (which describes someone who is both gifted AND dyslexic).
Many people think of dyslexia as simply a problem with reading and writing. Actually, dyslexia may have a profound affect on many areas of functioning, and individuals with specific learning difficulties are highly susceptible to emotional and social problems. I am especially interested in the emotional and social side of dyslexia and how this impacts individuals, couples, and family life. Laughton King (2016) wrote, “If we continue to see dyslexia as being merely a reading and writing problem we will continue to deprive these people of any real understanding or support in terms of the extent and depth of their difficulties”.
My Masters research looked specifically at whether dyslexia affects intimate relationships and I found that dyslexia does impact communication, executive functioning and the processing of emotions in these relationships.
The main point is that dyslexic people connect with the world differently and need others to speak their language. Dyslexic people have many strengths. They are often highly intelligent; phenomenal outside-the-box / bigger picture thinkers; highly creative; entrepreneurs; insightful; talented individuals.
The goal of my research, overall, is to help persons with dyslexia to find their voice and share their experiences of being dyslexic with the world, especially so that others may learn to speak their language. I want professionals, academics, businesses, teachers, social workers, and counsellors to better understand the experiences of people who live with dyslexia so they can change their own view of such differences and embrace those who think differently. I long to see people who live with dyslexia and who suffer from a low self-esteem, depression and negative identity conclusions set free so that they can reach their full potential.
Trauma, Complex Trauma, Dissociation and PTSD
I have completed many hours of training in trauma therapy (both professionally and personally!), and I work with individuals who have suffered trauma in both childhood and adulthood and/or who are suffering trauma currently.
My focus is primarily on sensorimotor psychotherapy, which is helping to process trauma in the body by focusing on physical sensations, posture, and movement to recognise how the body is holding feelings and experiences from the trauma. Linked with talk therapy this can help the individual to feel and experience what is happening at a physical and emotional level and then “sequence” these unresolved, unprocessed experiences that are stuck through to fight and flight (rather than collapse or freeze).
Psychological Abuse / Family Violence
I work to support women and men who have been affected by family violence to safely:
- Get free from living in abusive situations
- Find their voice and agency again
- Understand the social discourses and patriarchy that can keep individuals trapped in unhealthy relationships
- Set healthy boundaries
- Work through changes that may be frightening but necessary.
- Make decisions for themselves and their children that ensure their safety going forward
- Work through the erosion of self that can occur from the abuse of power and control
- Find healing and empowerment
Spiritual Abuse
I support individuals who have been through spiritual abuse in a religion, cult, or spiritual organisation to:
- Gain understanding of religious fundamentalism and legalism and how it is used to maintain power and control
- Work through what they believe and how they have been trapped in these systems
- Find their voice and agency again
- Set healthy boundaries
- Find ways to connect with Spirit within
- Find their path to continue developing spiritually rather than being stuck in controlling systems